Mario Kart Wii


Mario Kart brings me so much joy. Whether I'm playing by myself, with a friend, on-line against my co-workers, or girls versus guys night - I love it!

Today I realized that I might have given my self Carpal Tunnel because my thumb has been on fire for about two to three days now but I had to get those new characters unlocked. I love looking up cheat codes, playing people on-line,and opening new boards - this has got to be the coolest game ever! I feel like such a big kid. I'm so excited that my co-workers are in to it so I can exchange friend codes with them online and several of my friends play too! I'm actually excited about being snowed in tonight!!! In the words of M. Falletti... "It's the Little things"...Just felt like sharing!

And yes those are Mario Cupcakes (Picture courtesy of Hello Naomi)

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Matted Up

The day before yesterday while getting my nails done, I glanced over at the lady sitting next to me and I noticed that her technician was applying Lincoln Park After Dark by OPI. Nothing new except that it was the Matte version. And I thought to myself hmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm.... that's interesting looking. The Matte polish dries super fast and with an almost chalky but still cool look. Apparently I'm way behind on this trend so I decided to go with Russian Navy just to see what the big deal was. You can either wear the polish out in it's chalky form or have some high gloss applied as a top coat. I personally don't think I'll ever wear the chalky version out but I will admit that it was a cool experience.

Check out this Article at All Lacquered Up that shows several different swatches and gives greater detail on OPI and Orly's matte lines. (I kind of get the feeling that they prefer Orly over OPI - LOL)




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Cupcake Review: Red Velvet

Last spring I was fortunate enough to be in the office (instead of my typical client site) on "Cupcake Day." Building management decided to have Cupcakes brought in from Red Velvet Cupcakery! Surprisingly (I'll tell you why in a few), red velvet anything is my favorite and since the Cupcakery named it self after my favorite - they better have some tasty red velvet cupcakes. I'm not a big fan of chocolate and everyone knows that red velvet cake is typically made from chocolate cake with red food coloring. Not being a fan of chocolate (makes me thirty just to look at it or even talk about it but I do enjoy peanut M&Ms) how I came to love Red Velvet took some serious work. My mother makes THE BEST red velvet cake every year at Christmas time and to this day I haven't tasted anything with a Red Velvet tag that is as good as hers (Actually the Red Velvet Cupcake at Cupcakes Actually came close but it's my Mama...I can't give up "The Best" title that easily).

Anywho, I can't deny that it was a quite tasty little treat. Simple and cute with a fat dollop of cream cheese icing. The second best part was that it was FREE (for me at least! Typically their cupcakes are priced at $3.25 a piece - It's a little on the higher end of the DC cupcake market but they were a nice size compared to some other cupcakeries.



Red Velvet currently has 3 cupcakeries - 2 in DC (Penn Quarter and DuPont Circle) and 1 in Tucson, AZ (I guess I'll be passing this along to my God-brother so that he can indulge in their yummies).

http://www.redvelvetcupcakery.com/

Cupcake Review: Curbside Cupcake



So over the last couple of days I have been following a local DC Cupcakery on Wheels via Twitter. Curbside Cupcake is the cutest idea that I've seen in Cupcakes in a while. The concept is simple. They announce where they are going to be and at what times via Twitter and/or Facebook and you can come and get them! Today they were parked near my office in DC and although it was cold, I decided to take the walk (4 cold DC blocks). Between me and my co-workers, we had a Red Velvet, Classic Vanilla, Vanilla Mocha, and Chocolate with a Peppermint on Top and there were no complaints from this crew! At first glance, the cupcakes appeared to be a little skimp on the icing unlike those advertised on their website but the cake was so buttery and moist that it really didn't need any icing. I'd say they were worth the $3 price tag.

After returning to our desks, my co-workers fiance told her that he had seen them advertised on Food Network and in GQ magazine - Go Curbside Cupcakes!

www.curbsidecupcake.com
Follow them on Twitter @CurbsideCupcake

Cupcake Review: Lemonberry

So this weekend I was out in the city with my favorite guy Christophe Mortimer and to my surprise I looked down and I saw a $20 bill - For the Win (FTW)!!! We looked left and we looked right and there were no claimers so although we had just stuffed ourselves with Rosa Mexicano not even an hour before we decided to splurge on CUPCAKES! We paraded down M street in the Georgetown area of Washington, DC and made a right on Potomac to find the infamous Georgetown Cupcake. Georgetown Cupcake is trademarked by the fact that there is usually a line down the block with people waiting to get their hands on the new all American craze - The Cupcake. The Cupcakes are reasonably priced starting at $2.75 so we decided to purchase two a piece. Of course I ordered one Red Velvet cupcake and I decided to step outside of my box and I ordered a Lemonberry cupcake. The Lemonberry cupcake was as cute as a button. Yellow cake, with a Raspberry Fuschia colored icing, with a little lemon shaped candy in the center.



Full off of Rosa's, I didn't get a bite of my cupcake until hours later. To my surprise this was the worst cupcake that I've had in my life. The actual cake was good. It was a lemon and poppy seed cake with one issue - horrible icing. Probably because of the food coloring in the icing. The first bite had a bit of an after taste so I waited to see if it was the little candy on top that I had eaten first. Ten minutes later another bite... TRASH - $2.75 wasted. All I could think about was hearing the lady behind me in line order 4 Lemonberries as I walked out of the door. I bet she's pissed!

Pescatarian - Who Knew?



So I've been calling my Bestie a vegetarian for years now because she abstains from eating meat although she does eat seafood. On Thanksgiving, my cousin's Godsister informed me that she does the same and that they are actually called Pescatarians - Who knew?!? But thanks for the insight! It makes a lot of sense to me especially since I was once barked at by a woman who was in her eyes a 'true' vegetarian and not my Bestie (whatever lady). Because of this information I decided to look it up and I noted that according to About.com there are 7 types of Vegetarian - Get out of here!

1. Pescatarian - Those who don't eat meat or animal flesh with the exception of fish. Although the word is not commonly used, more and more people are adopting this kind of diet, usually for health reasons or as a stepping stone to a fully vegetarian diet. My Bestie, My Cousin's Godsister, and my girl's boyfriend.

2. Flexitarian/Semi-vegetarian - You don’t have to be vegetarian to love vegetarian food! “Flexitarian” is a term recently coined to describe those who eat a mostly vegetarian diet, but occasionally eat meat. This would be my girl. I thought that she was going to go fully vegetarian but when she's ready to have her meat - she throws it down. This is probably a good philosophy though - only to indulge in heavy meats every once in a while. I might venture into this one...

Vegetarian - People who do not eat beef, pork, poultry, fish, shellfish or animal flesh of any kind, but do eat eggs and dairy products are lacto-ovo vegetarians (“lacto” comes from the Latin for milk, and “ovo” for egg). See the variations below:

3. Lacto-vegetarian is used to describe a vegetarian who does not eat eggs, but does eat dairy products.

4. Ovo-vegetarian refers to people who do not eat meat or dairy products but do eat eggs. Who knew that there were so many variations?

5. Vegan - Vegans do not eat meat of any kind and also do not eat eggs, dairy products, or processed foods containing these or other animal-derived ingredients such as gelatin. Many vegans also refrain from eating foods that are made using animal products that may not contain animal products in the finished process, such as sugar and some wines. There is some debate as to whether certain foods, such as honey, fit into a vegan diet. ***Everything tastes better with butter and I guess you guys don't want any skittles either - LOL!

6. Raw vegan/Raw food diet - A raw vegan diet consists of unprocessed vegan foods that have not been heated above 115 degrees Fahrenheit (46 degrees Celsius). “Raw foodists” believe that foods cooked above this temperature have lost a significant amount of their nutritional value and are harmful to the body. **** Key word is RAW - no thank you

7. Macrobiotic - The macrobiotic diet, revered by some for its healthy and healing qualities, includes unprocessed vegan foods, such as whole grains, fruits and vegetables, and allows the occasional consumption of fish. Sugar and refined oils are avoided. Perhaps the most unique qualifier of the macrobiotic diet is its emphasis on the consumption of Asian vegetables, such as daikon, and sea vegetables, such as seaweed.

This came to mind today on my weight loss journey - I decided to take a break from meat today and I think that knowing the differences and possibly chosing to lead a flexitarian/pescatarian lifestyle could be very beneficial with the increasing rates of heart disease and diabetes in the black community.

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Happy Birthday



Well my Great Aunt and my Grandmother always claimed that the other stole the other's birthday (CRAZY Sisters) so we never really knew who was born when. Usually we would just celebrate around Thanksgiving. Since I wasn't in St. Louis this year, I missed the opportunity to give my Great Aunt a hug or visit my Grandmother's grave but I love and miss them both dearly. I'll see you ladies at Christmas time.

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Mama's on Facebook

So my mother has a facebook page and I often find myself censoring her comments so that she doesn't put all of my business in the streets and this is seemingly a common problem for a lot of my friends these days. Well yesterday I witnessed the Ultimate Mama Facebook blunder in life! Basically one of my guy friends invited me to a Church that he had been invited to. It was going to be a surprise to one of his former co-workers/mentors and it was arranged through her college-aged daughter (through facebook of course). So when we get there, the daughter sees him and she smiles but I noticed that the corner of her lips turned a bit when she looked towards me showing some disappointment that he had brought along a friend. Kind of like a "Who dis here woman Harpo?" but with a smile. I guess he forgot to tell them that he was bringing someone and it showed on their faces. The service was great and they had a Mime team that did a liturgical depiction of There is a King in You by Donald Lawrence. My friendboy loved the song so much that he went home and found it on youtube and sent it as a facebook message to me, the mother, and the daughter. So of course Mama replies and she says...

"[Friend Boy],

It was great seeing you again after so long. Even though it was a big SHOCK, it was nice meeting your girlfriend. I was hoping that you where coming to church to meet my daughter. what a fool I/we was. You do know that [daughter's name]was finding you quite attractive & interesting. Take care!!!!!"

Damn! Mama Damn! She really put her girl out there! I laughed so hard because she didn't realize that when she replied that she was sending the message to all of us!!!

I really want to reply and say "It was nice meeting you too" but I'm going to let her daughter call her and tell her that she sent the message to all of us. Nice work Mama!!!

Need to Know Basis


What do you do when you have people in your life that you truly care about but they refuse to tell you what's wrong? I've had my fair share at this and I've handled it differently every time.

1. One of the Violets calls and just wants to come by. Not a problem although we haven't particularly talked very much outside of sorority stuff so I was a little confused. Nonetheless, everyone is welcome at the Dollhouse. I could tell that she was going through something but I never forced it. Maybe she just needed to get away. I'm usually or was formerly known as one of the mean Big Sisters but it was never in reality. We sat in quiet and watched TV. Just glad that I could help her escape from whatever it was that was bothering her. She's like the sunshine today. Although I wanted to know back then - I didn't need to know.

2. Friend calls me up and just wants to come over and talk. She makes it over and has on these huge designer sunglasses for no apparent reason and sits down on the couch. As soon as the glasses come off, here comes the waterworks. She unfolded her man issues to me and at the time I really couldn't sympathize because she knowingly put herself into a bad situation but it still hurt to see her such an emotional mess. I never judged her based on what she told me, but afterwards I mentioned that I saw the guy out and that I had spoke (just said Hi) and she lashed out at me. #REALLY I didn't need to know any of this but now that I knew, I didn't want to know.

3. I knew that a guy was the wrong person for one of my friends and I told her all that I knew but they entered into a relationship anyway. Of course he hated me and then it turned out that she and I stopped talking. I just let it go because I can't fight with love. I figured that was how it was meant to be - they later got married and had a baby. 7 years later she calls me to talk. The bastard used to abuse her and now they are getting a divorce. I know now (and honestly I knew back then)but I just don't want to believe it.

4. Before my grandmother passed, she had a stroke. My family decided not to tell me because I was away at school and when I got the phone call saying that I better come home because they didn't know how much longer she was going to live I was furious and hateful. I couldn't believe that they had kept something like this from me knowing that my grandmother was my heart. I needed to know.

Now I have a friend who's seems as if they are being eaten alive by life's woes but I have no idea as to what is going on. We truthfully haven't been friends for very long but once I put you into my friend circle, it takes some serious undoing for me to remove you. I try to give some general encouraging words and give my personal testimony but really what do I know about their issues. The bigger issue is that their unknown issues (to me) are starting to affect my life. I'm worried about them and constantly wondering about what the next day will bring but it seems like I'm on a need to know basis. Let's see how this unfolds...

The Shack


A sorority sister of mine was reading The Shack by WM. Paul Young and she raved about how good this book was. So out of curiosity I stopped by a book store and asked a clerk to help me find a copy. To my surprise, this book was a NY Times Bestseller and he said that he could barely keep it in stock in the store. Where have I been?!? Several of my friends and co-workers have already read through the book and all had different views on how the book made them feel. Some inspired, some saddened. All I knew is that there was one last copy so I had to purchase it and I started reading.

The Shack is categorized as a Christian Fiction (although it states in the Foreword that it is based upon a true story). And honestly, this book has moved me in a way that I really cannot express. It's a very simple depiction of a man who has lost a child and blames God for the undeserving death of his innocent daughter. After the child's kidnapping and her assumed murder, I stopped reading for a while (the past three months actually). I started reading this book in July back during my travels for work and I zoomed through 3 other books but once I reached the point of the child's death, this one was entirely too heavy on my heart and I had to put it down. I couldn't imagine losing a family member let alone my child and a young child at that.

In the past year, my previous supervisor's daughter passed in a fire and my Cousin's daughter passed after being hit by a car. My old supervisor has always turned away from anything religious and when her daughter passed she went into a deep depression similar to the main character's (Mack) Great Sadness.
. I spoke with her yesterday about the activities of my former work group and she indicated that she wouldn't know. After her daughter's passing, she hasn't been the same. I told her that she may be interested in this book but once I disclosed that is was a Christian Fiction, she immediately declined. I will continue to pray that she re-turns to the Lord and that He helps her through losing her only child.

My cousin's daughter was hit by a car not even 3 months ago and the entire Michigan branch of my family has been in mourning ever since. My mother told me that someone stated that there couldn't have been a God being that such an innocent child was taken away. The hurt and pain has temporarily turned them away from God also similar to the main character. I know that their words and hearts are overcome by their loss but I have faith that the Lord will heal my family's broken hearts.

Fortunately for Mack, his struggle, anger, and pain, is overcome during a trip to the Shack in which his daughter was murdered. God shows themselves (Father, Son, and Holy Ghost) to Mack and allows him to re-TURN to God after he realizes the perfect will of God. This is a MUST read.

www.theshackbook.com

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New Moon: The Twilight Saga

OK so call me corny but I seriously went to the midnight showing of New Moon on it's opening night. I've read the books and I was PRESSED! But I wasn't the only one. There were people everywhere! New Moon hoodies, t-shirts, and cups. I will admit that I secretly want a Team Jacob shirt and I purchased a cup because it was only 50Cents with my slushy - LOL. Heavy Rains and all - people came out in droves to see the Twilight Saga that is New Moon.

The theater that I attended had at least 10 theaters dedicated to New Moon and I was very surprised that the movie was very true to the book. Scene for scene almost. My only disappointment is that I already know how it ends and who Bella chooses in the long run. If you haven't read the books you've had over a year now so get it together - Quick, Fast, and in a Hurry. Despite the outcome, I am Team Jacob for life. Taylor Lautner (Jacob) is the hottest thing smoking in this movie. Could he really only be 17? WOW!


Sorry Edward (Robert Pattinson) but I think your love for Bella is great and all but your pale emaciated body scene didn't do it for me. Bella's love sickening helplessness somewhat annoys me but not anymore than it did when I was reading the books.

Still a great movie and I can't wait for the next one. I feel like they should put the next two together into one movie and hopefully save us from having to wait 2 to 3more years before we can see it all put together.

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Say Cheese


So one of my goals is to pick up my camera and thus far I have pulled the camera out of the drawer and it's now on the dresser - OOOOWWW! I even went to Ritz yesterday and bought some black and white film - Double OWWWW! Now the trick is to figure out how to load this thing without exposing the film. LOL! Sad thing is that I seriously used to know how to do it. I've worked in a dark room and everything but I couldn't tell you how to rewind this thing now to save my life. Actually I'm lying. I know WHERE the manual rewind handle is - I just don't know how to load it without exposing too much of the film.


I even had brief conversation with a guy that I know that is film school. But since I didn't have my camera with me - Our little convo wasn't that successful. Thanks anyway Cole - I will be bothering you in the new future since I have film now and I know that you are super duper smart.

The only thing is that I just realized that I'm further behind than I thought. I don't remember a lickity split about photography! How is that possible? While in Ritz - the sales associate mentioned that they had filters on sale for buy one get one half off. Silly me says 'Yeah I have a 50MM one and I have an extra long one - I think it's 70MM. She replies "that's the lens sweetie." OOPS!

I guess it's time for me to start my research. I have a cute and simple Christmas postcard idea that I want to do. I guess this will be a Thanksgiving weekend project and I'm up for the challenge. Hopefully I can find a good DIY website that will help me out.

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1 - 2 - 3 ::GO::


It's been such a long time since I have really done anything for myself so I think it's time for me to set some goals.

Here goes...
1. Grow my hair out - This never goes very far but I did get to my shoulders this summer and then I couldn't take it anymore. The goal was to make it until October but it was really hot one day in September and then it was gone again. It just feels weird on my neck but I'm hoping that with the cold weather I find it useful to have some length back there. I'm going to give it another go.

2. My job used to pay for whoever wanted to sit for the CGFM but when the economy went belly up they stopped offering it. I was angry because I had just finished my break after my CPA exam and I was ready to boost my resume. I got an email today asking if I was interested. UMmmmmmm....yeah! Boost my credentials all on someone else's dollar and all I have to do is study? That would be a big fat yes!!! The only thing is that I wouldn't be able to test until March so that means I gotta stick around (YUK)

3. Pick up my camera - I always had a passion for black and white film and I convinced my uncle to give me a camera and guess what - I NEVER USED it. I see it in my drawer every week and it's going to waste. I even went as far as to look up another photography class at the local community college but ummmm...they want like $100 a credit hour for an intro class. I think I'll google it and/or call my uncle for tips and start from scratch. A Christmas photo shoot and some post cards may be coming soon.

4. Train Cooks to Rollover and Fetch - She's difficult and I used to think that she wasn't smart but I think she's stubborn. She knows what I want her to do. She just doesn't want to do it. But I'm the Alpha in my house so she'll get over it.

5. Exercise - Three times a week. Mondays, Wednesdays, and Saturdays. Thank goodness today is Tuesday - LOL!!!

Ok that's more than enough for now. I'll add more later.

Kisses!

About a Cookie (Instead of a Cupcake)

So my family is really tripping because I'm not bringing their boo home for Christmas. She ain't coming! It's $100 each way on the plane for me to bring my DOG and I have a FREE sitter. I took her last year and the airlines beat my pockets up! There is no way that I am going to do it this year.

Day 1 - Dialogue
Me: There is a 100% chance that she isn't coming
Mom: You need to do a better job of saving your money - I hope this won't be your philosophy when I have grandkids
Me: When I have childredn, you will need to start saving YOUR money because you'll be coming to see us
Mom: No - you and your husband will send for me
Me: Ha! *DEAD*

Day 2
Mom: So what are your flight dates
Me: the 21st through the 28th
Mom: You gonna leave her with someone else for that long! [not caring about when I am coming home - just how long I'm leaving the dog].
Me: GEESH! You guys care more about the dog than you care about me!
Mom: I'm gonna tell you like you told your cousin when you were little "You need to be at home with yo baby"
Me: [thinking - what does that have to do with anything]
Mom: Put it on something? [that the dog isn't coming]
Me: Who gon check me BOO? [If said she ain't coming - She ain't coming]
Mom: Don't get it confused, if I wanna check something I will
Me: Jesus wanted me to tell you something, he said "The dog isn't coming & Who gon check ME boo?"
Mom: LOL - whatever

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Hold the Cupcakes Please


Having a family with a history of diabetes, I once decided to talk to a doctor about it and he told me that my family having a history of diabetes didn't mean that it was hereditary. It meant that there is a history of bad habits.

Thinking back on it... He is sooooo right. I was taught how to sit at the table, what utensils to use, where to put my napkin, but never what to put on my plate! My mother worked hard and she wasn't the cooking type so most afternoons I had a bag of Red Hot Ripletts chips, a Honey Bun, and a Shasta soda. HORRIBLE! Only a teenagers metabolism could survive that type of daily damage (and it was a daily ritual).

As an adult, I have to be realistic about what I want and I am confident about what I am about to say. I am going to lose 35 pounds by changing my habits and most importantly - I will not have diabetes.

Friends - As I've gotten older, a lot of my friends are beginning to gain weight and it's all because work is slowing us down on top of a history of bad eating habits. As our metabolism is starting to slow down, our eating habits are catching up with us. The fact that we have better paying jobs isn't helping that much either because now we're going out to more expensive and tasteful restaurants.

Co-workers - We work long hours and someone is forever bringing in a box of Krispy's - STOP! Truth is that they won't stop but I need not accept it just because it's free. But seriously it's FREE!

But I have to goal to reach so when the The next office cupcake that comes my way - I think I'll be passing.


Two pounds at a time... Kisses!

Not a Regular


Everyone knows what a demanding job I have and it seems like since I was 'promoted' last year, I have basically transformed into a crazed maniac trying to please my managers, clients, staff, puppy, family, and lastly myself. I've fallen short of every one's expectations a few times. Got a bad evaluation back in the Spring that made me want to quit, my family has constantly urged me to quit because I'm always off the radar, puppy pooped in the crate a few times when I got home late, and I just decided to not care about keeping up with anyone because I was at work all of the time anyway - I wouldn't be seeing you anytime soon.

Well after a discussion with my 80+ year old Great Aunt (My Pookie's Sister and closest elderly family member) I was told that I'm No REGULAR ninja (right after she had just said a few scriptures to me). Now I have been joking around calling people REGULARS and EXTRA REGULARS for years and this year I recently picked up calling people BASIC but when my Aunt said these words to me - it had me on the floor buggin up.

Of course she backs it up in her deep Louisiana Southern Mama dialect and goes on and on about her maternal grandfather being a black creole and that the blood that ran through my veins wouldn't allow to me quit.

Despite the fact that she gave me a good laugh - she's generally right. I'm no regular and although dealing with where I want my career to go and whether or not this job of mine is my career (definitely not) - My attitude is that things are difficult but they are never impossible (Maybe for the Regulars out there).

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Kissed by a Frog

Have you ever seen a couple so beautiful and say WOW they belong together? But was it just because they 'looked' like they belonged together? Or maybe you even knew a little bit about them and felt like they were a power couple. Both intelligent, bound to produce beautiful kids, great families, blah, blah, blah... I've been a party in one of those couples but guess what? We only looked like we belonged together! Three years of trying because we both did the match maker calculations in our head and we 'thought' we belonged together. Consequently everything about us went wrong. He wasn't my prince charming.

After a not so recent heart to heart with a dear friend and a recent reminder blog, I realized that the ones that we calculate up to being 'our type' aren't always the ones to make us happy. Your Prince charming could truly be a frog. Not in that he's not good looking or intelligent, he just isn't or wasn't the one that you thought you would end up being with or falling head over heels for. Not tall enough, not dark or light enough, little bit of a belly, not in the profession of your choice, family doesn't like you, different religion, different races, different habits, different hobbies but nonetheless he is what your heart desires.

We are blessed in mysterious ways with the people that are brought into our lives and sometimes we have no choice in matters of the heart. Being kissed by a frog is no small thing in that who knows who that frog may be, if he will ever come, and/or if he will ever truly be your prince charming. All we can do is sit back and let God write our love story and be thankful for the opportunity to have loved and be loved.

Kisses

Kisses & Cupcakes...The Beginning


Well... I've thought about it and thought about it and now I'm ready to get rolling. Kisses and Cupcakes is simple blog of self reflections from a young female work-a-holic seeking spiritual and professional growth, laughter and fun, and just trying to make sense of this CRAZY world in general.



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